Get You The Right Squad

Who you surround yourself with is important. It reflects who you are and who you desire to become. The right people are going to be there to guide you and help you. Give you advice when you need it. Give you tough love when you need it. Who are going to push you to be great! Those are the right type of people to be around. Not people who don't actually have your best interest at heart. People who purposefully leave you out of things. Friends who constantly berate you or do things they know you don't like are not really friends at all. Its toxic and those of you in that situation deserve better. You deserve friends who are going to bring you soup when you're sick. Friends who are not going to let you give up on yourself and your dreams. Friends who are going to be there for you when you need them. Friends who love you for who you are and not what you can give them.

I'm lucky enough to have found my squad. I know that they'll be there for me no matter what. Sometimes I can pull back a bit because I have a hard time expressing myself (which I'm working on) and they always remind me that its okay to let go. That I don't have to always be so independent all the time. I can rely on them and when life gets hard I have people I can call to lift me up instead of trying to deal with it on my own. We all push each other to reach for our dreams. That's the kind of people you hold on to. I've already told all my friends we're sisters for life! There's no getting rid of me. I even want our kids to be best friends. It took me so long to find somewhere I fit. I thought I would never find friends that I fit in with. Where it didn't feel forced or uncomfortable. Now I have four amazing best friends and I know its the kind of friendship that lasts forever. You'll eventually find your squad too. Its not as impossible as it seems. Sometimes it just takes a little longer. Don't give up hope that you'll find your squad too.